Is he TRYING for a baby??!!

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A little back story to start us off, I was on the implanon implant and had it taken out in march because I gained a lot of weight. Doc put me on the pill but because it interacts with another medication I take he said to use condoms. Well my boo and I have been together for about a year and condoms are not our jam. So I told him to pull out. He said ok. I tell him all the time "pull out babe" and when it comes down to it, he... does not. Every time. He knows better, I've kept him updated on all of my gyno appointments. So finally, my question is, do you think he's trying to get me pregnant or am I just not handling it right? I don't know what else I can do other than scream PULL OUT before he comes lol. Any advice is appreciated, I obviously can't talk to my friends or family about it.

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Maybe ask him straight out. If his reply is "no" then I would be having a serious talk with him because you both know it will end up happening. If neither of you want a baby and he isn't able to handle himself at that stage maybe go a week free around ovulation time.

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👆🏼I agree! Definitely talk with him! And if he's trying to without your permission and you guys haven't had a conversation about wanting one, it's definitely a conversation you need to have!

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Have you considered the FAM method?
Basically, you track your fertility as much as you would if you were actively trying to conceive...track your periods, CM, and BBT on Glow every day at the same time every day so that it's as accurate as it can be. And then just don't have sex on green days. Every other day of the month, you're good. The birth control and FAM working together would keep you protected without the need of condoms or pulling out. I'd suggest doing this because it puts you back in charge of your fertility. Since he doesn't seem to be responsible enough to handle it.

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I suggest checking out the pages Eve has on almost every type of birth control. I know you said the pill interacts with your other mess, but is it just that brand or the active ingredients? Like would the mini pill work? Or the shot? You know, I'd ask him what's up with not pulling out on time but tbh that's not a good form of BC either, even if he's diligent about it.

Is he TRYING for a baby??!!

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