Help please!

Hey people!

I'm new to this whole Glow thing but anywayz.

I met this guy that I really want to screw. We tried to the other night but it hurt so much!

I had sex back in November but with that guy I couldn't really feel anything because the guy im seeing is so much bigger.

I guess I just wanna know if any of you know different ways that it will release the pain even by the smallest amount?

Its just he put his fingers in me and even that cained like crazy.

Is this normal? And I just really need any strategies to over come my fear of it hurting a lot.