His family 😔

My bfs family hates me... and i dunno why, they keep saying im "cold" im too shy, i dont talk... fuck sake can I be me? They literally have no idea of our relationship but they keep saying im too controlling, im always with him, i don't leave him alone... and yes we do spend a lot of time together but I don't even remember the last time I was with them together... because they always ask him to never bring me along... 😔 i feel bullied and my bf doesnt do shit about it.. in fact he tells me he will always chose his family over me.. but it aint about chosing... is about standing up for me and making them respect us and our relationship 😔😔😔