Am I right here? This situation is ridiculous
Ok so long story short my girl cousin and I used to be like sisters but drifted apart when I got married (she doesn't like my husband, for no reason, I think it's because she's not married) and had kids. She moved out of state but randomly her and my brother got really close. She's 31, hes 19. I'm 25. Two years ago she made up lies to my brother about me so he didn't talk to me for two years until her realized the lies weren't true. He also lives out of state. Him and his new gf came into town last week and I hadn't seen him in over a year. My husband, kids and I drove three hours to meet him and his gf and took them out to a really expensive dinner ($300) and then we paid for their über back to their hotel. Apparently when the dinner was over my girl cousin fb messaged my brother and wanted to know if she was mentioned at the dinner. My brother claims he only told her that I had said we drifted apart when she moved out of state (which I did say). I then get a text from her saying she's done with me and how dare I mention her name in front of my husband (she called him shitbag) (even though my brother brought her up). She said my brother told her over text that I said she had mental problems and had a tough time dealing with me "leaving the friendship and abandoning her"? Which I NEVER SAID. She claims that my brother just randomly told her this without her asking but it later came out that she texted him and asked specifically if she was brought up at that dinner. She then proceeded to yell at me for 3 HOURS and told me I was a liar and when I asked for the screen shots of the convo with my brother she told me I "didn't deserve them". I asked my brother what happened and he said he told her nothing. I then screen shot the message of him saying that and she it to her and she said she didn't care anyway and was dropping it but then went on to tell me that my brother told her something else and still knew I was lying despite PROVING i wasn't. So TODAY she texts me (we haven't talked since it happened) and tells me SHES ready to move on even though she still thinks I'm a liar. I told her I'm done being her friend and that I would find a new god mother for my daughter for her christening next month. She then got offended and called me dramatic? Am I right to be mad here? Opinions please. Sorry this was so long, I hope it was semi clear.
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