help this girl out please?

I am literally the most single person ever, I've been single since like 2009????? ((Mind you that was when I was in 6th grade)) and I am now a sophomore in college? Didn't go to any my proms because no one even bothered to ask me or anything. I've never been on an actual date, ever. Or like had my first kiss? I mean I'm not even 22 so it shouldn't bother me like that much, I guess. I know I had so much life ahead of me but. Any tips for dating? At all. Thanks 
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tinder, worked for me haha just gotta find the right ones I also looked after myself for a while and focused on making myself look like the person I would find attractive if I were a guy (purely for myself I didn't change to suit anyone)

Ke

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Honestly, I didn't get my first bf until my freshmen year of college and even that didn't last long (one semester of school), but Haii it was something that I got to experience. We met on MeetMe the app and we were majoring in the same field of study so we just clicked. Now I'm on POF, to me POF is better and has a wider expansion and more interesting people to talk too. I tried almost all the dating apps in the App Store and POF is my new MeetMe. Mostly everyone on MeetMe just wanted to hook up which is fine if that's what you wanna do, but I wasn't exactly looking for that and so I kinda moved on to POF where everyone is a bit more mature and serious about having a relationship. Plus, it's much more informational like you can take a chemistry test to see if you match with another person, they get detailed with like if you have kids, a car, what would you wanna do on a first date, your ethnicity/race, what's your job, etc. to put on your profile info., and I've met a lot of people on there that actually live EXACTLY across the street from my literally and also go to my college. I only use dating apps like this because I'm introverted, but POF helped me not to be so shy around dudes! Just be yourself on there and you'll be fine and will have dates in no time! 

Ke

Ke • Jun 28, 2017
Your welcome hun! Goodluck!

Gl

Glory • Jun 19, 2017
I'm actually gonna try POF - thank you

Ke

Ke • Jun 18, 2017
Tips: I actually write a detailed bio and sometimes it's a couple paragraphs, but I usually change it up. My notifications for messages stopped at 999+ a couple months ago and I go on it every week and haven't went through all the messages yet. At one point awhile back, POF deleted ALL of my messages because I was getting so many and I came back into the app to see my inbox empty lmao. Bs, but whatever lol. And take this from a girl who is introverted, self-conscious, and kinda the average girl, feel like there's a WHOLE lot more prettier girls out there and guys on there make you feel like your one of them or the prettiest one on there! But, they could just be copying and pasting it to every girl they see, so I find out for myself if they really think that about me or if they're just thirsty and saying that to every female lmao 😂 And don't meet up with anyone unless you've talked to them for awhile of course. Usually, I talk to them for 2+ weeks before meeting them because that's always just been me.

Ra

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Girl, I'm right in the same boat. I'm starting my second year, never had a boyfriend, never gone on any dates. It's probably going to sound dumb but just relax and not worry about dating. This time is for you. It's a time to get to know yourself and become comfortable with your self. The best thing you can do is go and find yourself some kick ass friends who get your mind off dating because the right guy will show up when he's meant to show up.

Ca

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i have never had a serious partner . i've kissed people , i've had sex with people , i've gone on dates .... but i've never had a serious partner ! and i'm in my junior year of college !!!! so idk girl me and you are in the same boat basically .

Ar

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I had my first real bf freshman year for only a tri. Then I kinda fell into the wrong crowd where I picked up things. Then I changed my life around and met a great guy that I'm committed to.

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I found my current boyfriend on OkCupid and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Meeting people in person has always been a hassle for me.