Sick of it

I just need to rant for a second.

I am sick and tired of my SO to tell me I'm "being a nutcase" or "there's no reason to act like that" when yet again our very fussy child refuses to sleep. He does zero of the work and honestly I'm the one dealing with everything 24/7 so I don't think he should get a say in if I'm upset and just staring at the wall thinking when he gets to go to work or go to another room or do really anything else other than watching and listening to our child scream bloody murder . He can get a break from it I can't. So if I want to pout and stare at the dang wall I should be able to without being called a nutcase!!!!!!!! 😑