Today's convo with DH. I may be more aggressive but he needs to realize parenting does not mean just me alone taking care of our daughter 24/7. Well I gave birth to our daughter so that makes him and I parents. I may be a SAHM but my stress level is up to my head. For him to come home from work and tell me that his work is like a side thing for him because watching our daughter is much more work yet he thinks I sit at home all day and rest with baby. I'm still in post partum, I need my rest too. Every morning around 2am when baby is most cranky what I need is for DH to help me out for an hour and put her to sleep. I know he works at 9am but I'm only asking for one hour of his time. Baby could be crying and he wouldn't move because he assumes I will take care of everything. I find myself up with a fussy baby anywhere from 3am-to sometimes 10am before she can get in a nice long nap. Our daughter would sleep then cry and squirm and move around. I'm still trying to learn to be more efficient and I need DHs help. He frustrates me, coming home daily from work and asking me like a child would to their mom, "what's for dinner?" "what are you going to cook?" I cook 99.9% of time, please give me a break and learn to cook us a meal too. Also he told me having baby means learning to be less selfish and putting her needs first. This is definitely not the case. He can't cook us a meal but he can only make himself a pb&j; sandwich. He wants to sleep more than spend time with baby and me. He values sleep above all things and have told me not to wake him up when he's sleeping bc he will get cranky and it won't look pretty. Well I'm a walking zombie everyday. So frustrating when he thinks being a stay at home mom is easy.