Marine wives, fancees, or girlfriends!

Rebecca • U.S Navy Sailor's wife. Married 12/30/15. First born on 01/02/17 Second Born 09/18/18 🧒🧒👨‍👩‍👦‍👦
Im looking for wives, fiancees, or girlfriends of marines! My fiancee is in the process of joining and i would like to talk to others that is going through the same thing as me or already have. I have so many questions to ask! Like should we get married before or after? Should we start a family before or after he joins? Should we wait till the first deployment? Very scared future marine wife right here... any advice or help would be greatful!:)