Please help! I need picture advice!!

I need advice ladies!! I would like to send some sexy photos to my husband but I am a larger girl and literally hate my body! I've tried taking a few photos in different poses tonight and I hate how it highlights every single flaw I have! I can't hire a pro photographer so that's not an option:( any poses that would be flattering and sexy for a larger girl? I'm already hesitant about sending him photos and after seeing the few I took I'm even more reluctant😞...