Being held back financially...

Nothing like having your husband tell you he has $4,500 saved for emergencies from money we're not suppose to touch and then being told it's really only $2,800.

It's so frustrating knowing that we're a 1 income family (I work and he stays home with our kiddo), and every time I start thinking we are out of the red and finally saving, sometime happens. I live my family but I swear I feel I would be better off financially if my husband had zero access to our money and I managed all of our expenses.

I just don't get how he was able to spend so much if our emergency money and didn't think to tell me.

PS. The emergency money is in his personal account so I have no way of checking it, which is why I had no idea he had spent so much.

This is soooo frustrating to me. Arrrrg!!! 😠