30 weeks and being compared !? 😡

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Is it me or does anyone else get annoyed when people are like “omg your so small your going to have a really tiny baby , no your not that far really ? , omg I was or am so much bigger than you , etc” , please tell me I’m not the only one !

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I'm 34 weeks and people keep telling me "wow you look big she's going to be a big baby!" And that hurts my feelings because she has IUGR and is only measuring 30 weeks so no, she's going to be a small baby! People should really not say anything to a pregnant woman except congratulations. We are like time bombs

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All the time girl.. I’m 37 weeks and I am tiny but don’t need people saying crap..

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My last pregnancy I would get "are you sure it's not twins?" Like YES IM FRIGGIN SURE why would you say that to me?

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I hate when everyone gives their two cents. “I know you’re carrying a boy because of the shape of your belly button” Give me a break! “Make sure you sleep!” Or “WOW, you’re SO TIMY!!” ... as I’ve gained 30 pounds at 28 weeks. I know people are just trying to be nice but like leave me alone lol

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I'm pregnant with twins and 28w 2d.  We had another girl at work who just had a baby boy. I get people say alot wow your so much bigger then so and so. Or wow look how big you are I'm surprised you can work all day blah blah blah. It's like OK people I know I'm big I'm carrying freaking twins. Yes I'm bigger then so and so was right before she had her single baby. My 2 babies weigh as much as her one does and I still have 10w to go if I go full term. I measure the same as a girl pregnant at 38w. So yes I'm going to be bigger I've got 2. I'm to the point where I just look at them and say yeah OK and what's your freaking point. We're all different everyone looks different.

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I've gotten that with all of my pregnancies, but it doesn't bother me. As long as baby is healthy, people can hate all they want on my non-stretch marked self leaving the hospital in my prepregnancy jeans 😂. And just an fyi, belly size and weight gain have zero to do with your babies size except in extreme cases of malnutrition or obesity. So don't worry about people saying your baby is going to be small. As long as yiu give him the correct nutrients, which is not the same as calories,  he'll be the size he's meant to be regardless of how much weight you gain.

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Ugh I think I might stab the next person that tells me that!!! I'm 36 weeks 3 days. I'm measuring spot on and they think if she goes to 40 weeks she'll be 8 pounds. Then they say oh she must not take after her daddy. ( he is 6'4") please he weighed 7 pounds 13 ozs 21 inches. I weighed 7 pounds 12 ozs 21 inches. He was born 3 weeks early I was born 2.5 weeks early. Pretty sure they can suck it!

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I get you're huge! Only 4 months? You have so long to go!

30 weeks and being compared !? 😡

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