Are you kidding me?

So me and my husband decided today we wanted to announce to our family we are expecting baby #2, we decided to keep it a secret until now because we've had two miscarriages already. Well we told my SO dad a couple weeks ago he's a pastor and we wanted him to pray for a healthy pregnancy and baby, well apparently he told my brother in law and his wife, well today when we two then ourself my sister in law gives attitude and is mad because we didn't tell them weeks ago!! We tried to explain to her we wanted to wait until we felt we were comfortable considering we've already had two miscarriages. I just really needed to vent because she's never been in the situation we were in, we wasn't thinking about us we were thinking of everyone else, we didn't want to get everyone excited again in case something was to happen!! 😡