Feel like a failure..

Gave birth to our son and husband didn't shed one tear. He said he teared up but didn't actually cry. It was his first planned pregnancy, had a boy just like we both hoped for, everything was great during it. Only problem we experienced was placenta covering birth canal but it eventually moved up and I had a vaginal birth. 31 hours of labor, 21 hours of doing my best to deal with contractions then the nurse finally convinced me to get an epidural after she told me once they broke my water, contractions would get 10x worse and I had gotten no sleep so far. Pushed for a half hour and had a healthy baby boy...I cried but he didn't. Also, I hate hormones🙃 I'm sure that's probably the reason I'm feeling this way.🤦🏻‍♀️