I want to look like this.. should I try?

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So my name is Mia and I’m 4’11 and I’m 113.4. I want to go down a lot and look like this..

I know I’ll have a lot of work to do because I look like this..

I’ve gotten picked on for my weight and I just feel like people could like me more if I look like this.

Accepted Answer

stop. your last sentence says you're doing it for others, which is a horrible reason. do it for yourself, not others. to be like the girl in the first photo you're going to need to work on toning your body. if it's an option you should get a trainer at the gym. they also have apps to encourage you and tell you what work outs you can do and how to do them that you could look into

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Okay. Listen to me. Really try to understand what im saying here. You wont look like her. Now dont stop reading. Let me tell you why
1) by what you typed, it seems like youre doing this for other people 
And 2) having that picture in your mind while youre working out is NOT going to help you. Results take a while to show, especially to the person working out. So constantly comparing yourself to that picture WILL NOT HELP YOU! Instead, try being the best person YOU cant be FOR YOURSELF!! NOT for anyone else. Having motivation to be the best person YOU can be will help you go a long way. 
Once you take your focus off of other people and start doing this for yourself, look into a gym membership if you feel like this is what you want. 
Best of luck!

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You should never ever want to be or want to look like someone else! You’re you! And you are enough. You don’t have to be skinny for others. If you want to lose weight and tone up, then go for it! But only do for yourself because otherwise it’s not worth it.

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Please don't hate on yourself or try to look like someone else 😔 take it from me, I'm suffering from an eating disorder. It has affected my health and wellbeing in so many ways, just from trying so hard to look like something other than me.

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I say try it but only do it for yourself. never ever change your self for anyone ever. fuck what they think! darling you are gorgeous and if you feel like working out will make yourself happier than you already are then do it (but please work out in a healthy and safe way).

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I say yes but i say yes for you, not for what anyone else thinks of you.i say yes because the feeling that you get personally from working towards a fitness goal is amazing! Do it for health and do it for yourself. Don’t do it because of how others treat you. Don’t aim to look like the person in that photo, aim to be fit and healthy. You can do it and you will love it! Good luck x

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Look like YOU. Be proud and confident in the person YOU are. If you don’t love yourself, no one else will either...

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Girl, hit the gym and be consistent. I am sure you can do it, just dont do it for others, do it for yourself, forget about the haters.

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You can always try! There's no harm in that! :) You're still growing and you could just naturally grow into something that looks similar. Please don't worry too much about what other people say, there's a difference between practicing constructive criticism, and taking the bully's words to heart. Youre still beautiful! :). ❤️

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I don't recommend you do it if you wanna look good for others. Someone might see the pic of the girl and rather prefer you then her

I want to look like this.. should I try?

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