I’m pregnant and she’s mad...

**WARNING LONG DRAMATIC POST*** So I found out I was pregnant and the first thing I wanted to do was tell my best friend. I was planning on sending someone into her work with flowers and a card that said “Love baby H”. Well, that day she sends me pictures of something that came out in the toilet when she went to the bathroom... and sends me another one later on in the day. Another one of our friends tells her it’s a miscarriage. If she was pregnant she would have been around 5 weeks. She took multiple tests which were all negative, never went to the doctor afterwards and I found out that she’d been smoking pot & cigarettes, not eating and taking Adderall to lose weight during this time that she was supposedly pregnant. Well because of her possible miscarriage, I obviously waited to tell her my news. I was saying to a mutual friend that I felt terrible for not telling her but I didn’t want to upset her more. Well... I tried to hint at it in a group text and this is what happened

So at that point I stopped answering because I didn’t want to make the situation worse and was already upset over what she said. Well, then she decided to text the other girl in the group and said all of this...

Then she texted me with...

***I would NEVER say that I deserved to have a baby before someone else so I have absolutely no clue where that came from***

We still haven’t spoken and it’s been about 2 weeks. We’ve been friends for 9 years and she’s always had a terrible attitude but we have gotten along for the most part. She was the maid of honor in my wedding. Lately she has been really mean towards me and this was the icing on the cake. We are getting close to announcing on social media that we’re pregnant and I still have not officially said to her that I’m pregnant... I’m married and we were trying to get pregnant while her and her long term boyfriend have cheated in each other multiple times, she tells me all the time how she’s not going to be with him forever and she doesn’t want to have kids with him because he can’t grow up, but then complains when we are in public and she tells him she wants to get pregnant and he doesn’t.

I guess the point of this post is to see if you all would be upset too at the way she was acting? Or am I overreacting?