Vagina after birth??

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I have read some terrifying shit on here and on the internet about how people’s vaginas don’t go back to normal looks wise and or tightness.. my mom had 3 c section and she asked her boyfriend who has an ex who had 2 kids vaginally and he said there is a huge difference so now I’m freaking out idk what to think ... also readthat people tear and stuff and the doctors sew them up he first time but if your Labia stitches fall out then you just screwed and need plastic surgery to fix it... I do have “lips” so I’m worried

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I had my son in July 2013 and I’m currently pregnant with my second. I had 22 stitches from an episiotomy and tearing. 
My vagina is fine trust me, it’s not lose, it doesn’t look weird, and my SO thoroughly enjoys it. If your SO has a problem with your vagina after child birth he can eat a dick

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I think you are worrying way too much, our female organs are made for this they are made to stretch and everything else, sounds like that bloke is abit of a knob to be honest. I wouldn’t worry at all

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It’s normal to stretch and tear and need stitches. But it will go back to normal! I guarantee you won’t need surgery to fix anything! 
Try to relax, our bodies are made to do this! The vagina is just a huge muscle, I promise it will “bounce back”

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I had a lot of guy friends growing up, and when we got older some of them dated women who had kids from a previous relationship (and delivered vaginally). A long time ago, I was around a bunch of them when this topic came up (I was privy to a lot of “bro” conversation). Those guy friends said that there was no real difference between relations with someone who had given birth and someone who hadn’t. I think that’s as unbiased of an opinion as you’re going to get. I was the only girl present during this conversation and they had absolutely no reason to impress me.

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Some people do tear during pregnancy, but if you can relax as much as possible, do the breathing, and do stretches to prepare for child birth, you should be fine. Refusing an epidural also decreased your chances of tearing, because with an epidural, you can't feel when you're overexerting yourself. Vaginas are made to stretch and give birth, so I really wouldn't bother worrying about that, but you should be prepared to be rather leaky for awhile after you give birth.

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How long till all you ladies had sex again?

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I’ve heard the same. One reason I’m glad to be having a c-section. Lol!

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My vagina was back to normal in a week 🤷🏻‍♀️ seriously. It was swollen for maybe 4 days and that was it. I’m now 6 months postpartum and everything is still normal. I’m not any more right or loose or anything like that either. So I really wouldn’t worry about it.

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I had my girl almost nine months ago, had an episiotomy and 10 stitches.. so tgeee was a healing time but nothing looks different, it’s the exact same as before. My hubby still loves it

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I have had 5 kids with #6 on the way and my so says everything still feels the same and at times tighter I have had stitches with all my kids so idk I think if he has problem with it I think he's been a jerk

Vagina after birth??

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