So I’ve just found out that my cousin (who is due in January, I’m due in March) is potentially going to be calling her little boy the same name which I have loved since I was a teenager! Max has always been a name I’d like to call my son and my S/O has agreed that we should call our son that! However my cousin who is due before me with a boy is also considering the name Max or Harry! We aren’t close at all so I don’t feel like I can say to her, oh I like Max so can I have it please but on the other hand I don’t want to call mine Max if she calls hers Max! What do i do? Please help! ☹️☹️