Ughhhhh

**WARNING LONG POST**

Okay, so, my fiancé and I have been together almost 2 years and we've been having sex for about a year. At first it was like rabbits lol and then we got busy with life so it died down some. Well the other day we had a moment alone (during the day time) so we decided to have sex. It had been a few months since the last time. We've just been getting each other off by hand or oral sex. Well, when we did it the other day I was really getting into it and enjoying it (after 2 mins of going at it) and he came. Which I didn't know he did. He didn't tell me but he just kept going and I stopped feeling anything cause he went soft. Well thats fine at least we got a bit of intimate time together since we haven't in a while. I was totally ok with the fact that it was only a few mins cause at least we got to be one in a moment alone. Thats all i cared about then. Well, he seemed totally uninterested after that. Come to find out he doesn't like having sex during the day. Its a turn off. My point i tried to tell him was that it wasn't necessarily to get physical satisfaction but more so emotional. We have been so busy that we've started disconnecting so i thought maybe that would help. But it didnt. I walked away feeling even worse. Not only that but he would rather eat me out and finger me than have sex with me. Which really upsets me. And then today he's been really off. Like distant and not kissing me how he usually does. So i confronted him and asked what was going on and he said he just doesn't feel romantic right now. What does that even mean??? Im trying to slow down and spend more time. Am I just overreacting or what?? I don't wanna be crazy and i don't wanna push him away or lose him just cause life its busy right now.