Would you be upset if your s/o was looking at porn and masturbating with you asleep in the same room?

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I woke up to my husband looking at porn and masturbating with me asleep in the same room. Our sex life hasn't been great and just keeps declining. He's always saying he's too tired from work. I guess I'm just hurt over it because I feel neglected as it is and he feels it's okay to look at porn with me sleeping in the same room. I just wanted others opinion and insight on this. Thank you in advance! Baby dust to all those TTC!!!!

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It wouldn’t bother me if I was asleep. I don’t want to be woken up to have sex. Since there are issues with your sex life in general I think it’s more of a big deal. Talk to him about it. See if you can both try to spice things up.

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It's completely unacceptable even if you weren't in the room.

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I️ would be upset! Especially since he is telling you he’s too tired from work but yet he’s up watching porn making himself happy... that’s not right.

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that's weird an unacceptable

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I personally wouldn’t be upset. We’ve already talked about starting sex while the other is asleep so if he’s watching porn and getting himself off while I’m sleeping it’s because he knows that I’m not game at that time. Heck, I’ve done it. He wasn’t feeling well so I knew he wasn’t game so I got myself off while he slept. I can see your frustration though if he’s turning you down and then doing this. It would be a massive knock to me if I knew that I was being rejected all the time but he’d still watch porn and get himself off.

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wouldn't bother me only because I Absolutely hate being woken up

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It depends on many things but mostly no because don’t mf wake me up.
Maybe it’s a turn on for him. Idk. I’ve masturbated next to my husband while he’s been asleep in bed. 
I’m not about to try to wake him up to have sex, he’s cranky when he wakes up. I’m just not about to interrupt his sleep in the middle of the night.

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If it was me and my girlfriend, I wouldn't have any problem with it, we haven't had sex for about a year now but we regularly masturbate to porn (not at the same time).. But we love each other dearly and are both happy as we are both being sexual, just with our selves, I'm guessing if I wasn't masturbating and she was, I'd get pissed off too, maybe you could try masturbating while he's not home or something?

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It would be one thing if he did that on his own time, but with me in the bed with him? Hell nah, I’m right beside you..pull my ass over & please yourself with me not some other bitch on the phone.

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My fiancé and I both do,that,while while the other is sleep then we wake eachother up and have sex. so no I don't have a problem with it but everyone is different and have their own opinions

Would you be upset if your s/o was looking at porn and masturbating with you asleep in the same room?

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