Marriage advice
My husband and I have almost been married a year. He constantly makes decisions about our finances with hos parents without ever discussing with me or even mentioning. He will go behind my back and get money from his dad and lie to me about it. I work really hard to make our finances work and he doesn't because he knows he always have the fall back of asking his dad for whatever he wants. We both have full time jobs at large companies and are allowed PTO and vacation but he doesn't get paid for the days he does not woke since he works on commision.
My husband literally jumps at everything his parents want. They live 6 hours from us and anytime they ask him to come visit for whatever reason my husband thinks he absolutely have to and to stay for multiple days. I honestly don't mind but it's rude that I am never included or asked if the times work with my work schedule and I'm expected to go either way so that I don't come across as rude. We have three dogs that he have to board or take with us. I hate taking the dogs because his parents do nothing but complain when they are there and I am constantly on edge. But it costs sooo mch money to board three dogs for mutilple days.
Anyways this is only an example of him making decisions without me and this one especially hurts my feelings because we never took a honeymoon or even a trip after our wedding for just us. Everytime I mention it he says he can't get time off of work or doesn't want to board the dogs. But we've done it several times without him complaining for his family. It makes me feel like I'm constantly second to his parents. Idk what to do.
I'm so unhappy.
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