SIL help!

Long story short, My fiancée and I are getting married in November. My SIL has brushed over our engagement, and yesterday contacted my fiancée trying to make him feel guilty that we we’ve chosen to have our wedding in another state, where I’m from and we first met.

I haven’t said anything to her, and neither do I want too. If anyone isn’t 100% happy and wants to cause drama then they won’t come.

My question is, I want to be the better person, and I want to ask you lovely ladies of some wonderful gift ideas that will hopefully humble her?! (Long shot, I know)

Any Christmas gift ideas for MIL would be great too? My MIL wasn’t exactly over the moon about our engagement.

So please, any ideas! (I just want Christmas to go smoothly)