Just curious 🤦🏼‍♀️

Would you take your almost 1 -1/2 year old out to a "Christmas party" that's at a distillery? My first answer was noway but the time is 5pm and it's my boyfriends brothers band playing the music.. he really wants to go and invited all his friends from out of town but I don't want him to get out of hand, drinking wise and ruin family Christmas activities tomorrow. If I'm there at least I can monitor his alcohol intake and it's also unfair that he can just go without me.I think my son would enjoy the music and others would love to meet him as well. Is it ok to take our child or would that be frowned upon?