I don't know. advice needed.

well my husband and I have been together 4 years dated 1 married 3. it was love at first sight but we are complete opposites. When we first met we partied all the time and had fun. well we decided to grow up and move away from our roommates into our own place. we then got pregnant and had a beautiful baby. anyway long story short. I don't miss parting but I do want to drink and hangout with friends every once in a while. like twice a year..my birthday and new years... well last night we had a huge argument BC we had made plans with friends and last minute my husband canceled and didnt tell me I got ready and then when I asked what time we were leaving he told me we weren't going...I cried. I was so excited to go out and have fun...to get out of the house..my husband then got mad and said I didnt want to grow up and if I couldn't be an adult and stay home then we needed to separate. ..I was like wtf! one day is all I wanted...we didnt break up but I don't know how to talk to him. I need fun time too.. he plays video games that's all the fun he needs.

so any advice?