sex and vaginal discharge

I prefer men to answer this question because I'm so self conscious about it. when I was 29 my vaginal discharge change. It is now white, thick and creamy not milky but creamy. Does this gross guys out? or do guys see this all the time? I haven't had sex since my ex because it's so different then the clear discharge I always use to have and makes me feel dirty. i don't feel like it works as a good lubricant either because its thick so it dries. Please help and be honest when answering. thank u