Here goes stick with me! So I started dating my boyfriend around August he expressed to me that he was close to his family I didn’t think much of it. Till our first date... after a good dinner and movie we ended up at his sisters house where I met ALL OF HIS FAMILY! This caused me to have crazy anxiety trust me after that horrible date I still stuck around. We started hanging out with his family a lot more once I got comfortable, since I lived with my parents he use to hang with them during the week when he would go see me. I started noticing little things here and there where his brother and brother in law would make some rude comments and jokes, when I asked him about it he said they were just playing and that’s how they were. I didn’t like it but I never said anything cause I don’t have older siblings or a big family and he’s the middle child so I thought that’s how it is. Fast forward a couple of months we wanted something of our own we dropped a lot of cash on a dog not knowing what was to come. His brother kicked him out of his house because his brothers wife that isn’t here got super jealous (that’s another rant trust me). We had a dog and had to look for a new place. We tried hard to find a place and save up. We moved into an RV and saved up for months on a house that never even started to get built. We were thrown into adulthood basically. We started living together and this is where every joke every comment and low blow started to hurt me to. Because behind every decision he made I was there I was part of those decisions. I know that everything he does is for the good of his family. One time I really lost my shit was when he switched his weekend to work to go to my cousins wedding when he did that he got stuck working on Christmas and ruined their Christmas ‘tradition’. When his brother found this out he straight up looked at him and called him an idiot. 😡 I straight up wanted to slap him. When I told his mom how I was feeling she said to not worry that’s how they are. Now I really don’t want to go around them after we went to go see a house and he dragged us to see his sister. Of course we walked in with high hopes after feeling like we were getting something good. His sister instantly started telling us how dumb we were getting our hopes up on a house we can’t afford. I lost it when she whispered to my boyfriend that he had to think this through cause it was ‘his paycheck’ doing all this I work to a lot and hard 7 days a week. 😒 But it’s his money going into his house. I later took care of her twin boys but I instantly regretted it when they started kicking and pushing my dog around. I told her I had a problem with it to which she responded that it was just a dog and to get over it. My dog and my man are the only thing that i have to care for in this world I’m building myself up I’m starting off in life. I have never said anything to them to avoid problems but it got so bad that when we have hard days I don’t trust them at all and I don’t need mean comments to bring me even more down. This is causing us to have problems cause I feel like I keep him from his family a lot. I love him but lord I need to do something about them 🙄