Is this cheating?

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So my significant other has a baby mother, and as he always say they don’t get a long he just talk to her about the baby. So I go thru our usage on T-Mobile.com and see where he always talking to her for 30minutes or more and I don’t understand back to back all day! I don’t understand. Is he cheating?

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Hard to say..but I do talk to my kids dad every day. Sometimes we get talking about something one of the kids did or something and we can be on the phone for 20 mins easily. There is absolutely nothing going on between us, just coparenting and being friendly with each other. I'm happily married to another man. We all just coparent together and so we have become a weird ass close family lol. Maybe try bringing it up to him and tell him your concerns and see what he has to say. They could just be friends.

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it depends on what is being discussed. my SO is on contact almost daily with his ex about his. i wish it weren't that way but she is just a shitty mother that doesn't care to be involved but likes to act the part so she needs to call and find out stuff from my SO or he has to talk to her to make sure she is aware of things going on on her time so my SD doesnt get in trouble. if she just did her part there wouldnt be a need for all the talk but thats asking too much of her. she wont change her ways so i understand why he talks to her as much as he does its for his kid. i would find out whats being discussed before jumping to conclusions. but if he seems to have a problem with you being around when talking to her and tries to hide it i would say thats not a good sign.

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I think cheating might be jumping to conclusions... But it seems like a lot to me. I've got friends that have broken up and have kids and they talk on the phone sometimes 3 times a day (it annoys her ) but he he used to ring in the morning to see how she slept, during the day to see how she was, and at night to see if she went to bed ok ect. it was never for half an hour but it could be innocent, is there a reason you don't feel comfortable just asking him? because if it was me i would just say hey babe I seen on the phone bill your talking to (insert name) alot recently is everything ok? is the baby ok?

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Seems fishy because he is lying about getting along with the BM and he never calls around you...

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I feel so sick

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My husband talks to his ex wife about their kids every couple of days and they are always quite long conversations but there is 4 kids to discuss and one of them has always done something bad lol.

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Was the baby sick or was there anything going on that would require a lot of conversations?

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that's not cheating he has a child talk to him about it

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its a possibility

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I'm not going to say tht but I'm not understanding why thy always tlking for such a long period of time, I thnk he just telling u anythng. Hv an open mind follow your 1st mind

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