Had been ignoring me for a week
So today marks a week since my boyfriend hasn’t talked to me. I’ve tried to tell him not to ignore me. I told him I want to know how he is, how his days have gone. I understand people need space, and I respect he likes to have alone time. What I don’t respect is that when I tried to communicate with him he told me I was “too in love” and that it was dangerous cuz the downfall could be painful. He said me being so caring and affectionate was “pathetic”. That hurt although I tried not to take it personal. I understand he doesn’t like affection. We have different love languages but I don’t feel it’s fair for him to insult me like that? He told me to respect his wishes when he tells me things cuz he finds stuff easily unattractive. But he seems to have no intention in compromising and respecting my wishes. I don’t want to dump him because I feel like I’m overreacting but at the same time I don’t feel like I am.
What are your guys thoughts on the situation? Advice? I don’t know what to do. 😕
UPDATE:
He’s a good guy. We have a great friendship. But as a relationship as of now we don’t match the way we express ourselves. I don’t doubt that he cares. He made me realize it in other ways. He has his own form of affection. But I want something different and he wants something different. And because of those differences this relationship won’t coincide. Im upset because we have both invested so much trust in each other , but things happen for a reason we are both gunna be okay. We have taught each other good things. And I’m confident we have both learned from each other. It was for the best although it hurts.
I deeply appreciate the advices. Now I just need some cheering up.


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