Valentine's help! please?

My long term BF and I are not on the greatest of terms right now. He has seriously violated my trust and I am having issues moving past it. (It's not cheating, he promised to work on things and didn't even last 2 weeks before he went right back to his BS!) Anyways, V-day is coming up and I know I "need" to do something for him but, really I don't want to. I had this whole plan to get a hotel room so we could go swimming and relax in the hot tub at the hotel (he loves doing that kind of thing plus, 4 kids so...) but, now I'm like, FUCK SENDING $100+ ON HIS ASS! Besides he doesn't ever really seem to love the things I give him. I'm on the fence about what to do. Really, I still want to relax in that hot tub! Just not so much with him. 😅 So what do you ladies think I should do? Go for my original plan or just go generic with some thing like some shitty chocolates and a balloon or something else, suggestions welcome. Thank for the help.

I just saw this and thought, that's an idea. If he doesn't get his shit together soon he maybe needing it every night. Throw him warning flag, as if I haven't done that a few dozen times!