Which option is best for a healthy relationship?

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So my boyfriend of 1 year and 3 months (we are 19 and 21 years) thinks that we should not see each other every day but 3/7 days of the week. He said that he wants this as he believes that this will make our relationship healthier as he wants that feeling of excitedly waiting for the next time to see me instead of seeing me everyday as this might become kind of a routine. This isnt because he doesnt like hanging out with me or doesnt see a future with me, but because he wants to have a brand new experience when we get married in regards to seeing each other daily (we also agreed to have sex after marriage). Basically he doesnt not want us to act as a married couple as we are still in the beginning of our relationship.
Do you believe that not seeing each other everyday will actually make a relationship healthier and stronger because of that missing you period?

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Sounds like you could be a side chick

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That could be true.... or he could be scheduling you and another girl so he doesn’t get caught.

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Having your own life can be healthier for a relationship but I don’t know about just planning to stay apart for the sake of it.

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Personally I think you should see each other as much as you want to/can there shouldn’t be a number of days on it. I know for my husband and I we saw each other as much as possible and hung out as much as we possibly could before we moved in together! I feel like if you are serious in the relationship and see a future with that person you shouldn’t have feelings of ‘getting tired’ of them. Maybe just don’t put a number on the times you can see each other and just hang out whenever y’all want to!

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Uhhh idk but I respect him for not wanting to place house! I live with my partner and i’m still so excited to see him everyday when we get home. I’d go crazy only seeing him 3 times a week.

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I think it depends. But I also think it’s important to know if you could actually spend everyday with that person and not get sick of them or angry at one another BEFORE marriage. 
My boyfriend and I saw each other nearly everyday. We both work full time, so I was always going over to his house or he was going over to mine after we were both off. We would spend nearly every night and morning together. 
His work schedule is different every week, so he would also try to move his off days for when mine were. 
Seeing each other everyday and getting use to each others morning and night routines was nice. 
We live together now. I never once felt that it was a wrong decision or we are seeing each other too much. I still look forward to him getting home from work everyday and now that we do live together, it’s even easier for me to see that I would absolutely be able to spend the rest of my life with him.

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When I started dating my fiancé we hung out every day. Of course except for work and my family night. He would even pick me up from my moms just to take me to work so he could see me. We couldn’t get enough of each other. The only times we were apart was if I was at home after spending one with him or working. 4 years later and we have a beautiful 2 yr old and very healthy relationship. I don’t think it’s wrong to not see each other everyday sometimes you can’t and that’s ok. It also doesn’t make it anymore or less healthy. The only time seeing each other everyday is unhealthy is if they’re trying to separate you from your family to easily control you. A lot of couples don’t spend every day together and that’s fine every relationship is different what works for one may not work for another. However, I do think it’s odd that he specifically said he didn’t wanna to see you for x amount of days.

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In my opinion, 3/7 days is a better option (for me of course) it’s all good to be around each other everyday but then it kinda starts getting annoying and sometimes you run out of things to talk about (.... because y’all were both there) it’s really up to. Are you clingy or no ?if you are then go for it. If you lose interest quickly (like myself), take it slow .

Which option is best for a healthy relationship?

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