My husband whines to much...

so basically everytime we get into a fight he whines and always goes back to his childhood. Everytime I get mad he goes back to make me look like the bad guy and blames me and always says he loves me. I'm honestly so done with his whiny fucking ass. I love him but fuck he might as well be a toddler. and then blames how I never listen to him but how can I listen to him when all he does is whine about every little thing. and again always goes back to his childhood saying he had a shitty one. we all had a shitty one, you don't see me whining about it.