I need opinions...

So my fiancé and two of my best friend(ones a girl and ones a guy)and I all work together in a grocery store. A co-worker of ours dad pasted away this past week and my uncle died about two weeks ago.

The girl best friend came up to me and asked if i was going to the viewing for the co-workers father. I told her no because i don’t know the co-worker very well. She was trying to decide if she was going to go with our guy best friend and a few others from work. And she said she’ll most likely go.

When my uncle died a couple weeks ago neither one of my two best friends showed up to the viewing or bother to see if i was okay.

Do you guys thinks it right that my so call “best friends”didn’t bother show up to my uncle’s viewing but both of them are going to the co-workers dad’s viewing?