My birth story ,very detailed!

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2 days before i got induced i went to the obgyn He & checked me at 39 weeks ,baby would kick me and i was feeling shooting pains in my cervix, i would stop when walking , and not to mention i was baby shopping at 38-39 weeks still.. (i know worst thing ever, back was killing me feet looked like hams, and i was having lots and lots of pressure on abdomen )well when my obgyn checked my cervix i was about 1.5 cm dilated he did an ultrasound to see if baby was heads down and he was ,so my obgyn gave me 3 options , induction ,wait till baby decides to come out ,or go home have sex and do walk and see if i dilate more . And I said induction right away, i was excited. He told me he was going to give me 3 doses of cytotec and then i should start dilating within the next 12 hours or less... i was scheduled to be at the hospital at 5 pm and did not get a room till midnight ...i was given my gown and got my iv .. it was really uncomfortable .. then i was connected to the Bp machine , and could not go to the restroom by myself ..boo, thats the downside of been induced 🤕....anyway the first 30 mins when i first got the room my hubby couldn’t enter ... so he waited outside . When he entered i was given already the second dose of cytotec , i was getting it every 2 hours, by 7:00 am my obgyn came and checked my cervix and said i was 2 and a half cm. He said that cytotec did nothing. And came and broke my water by. 8:00 am .. it felt weird .. warm water coming out , i felt like big gushes of pee down my thighs , even though they put a towel and some pads there.. i literally felt like it wasn’t holding 😓.. anyway right after my dr said that within 30 min i was going to start having contractions, and they did .. they started like period cramps lit, my dr came to check my check on me and said that if i wanted the epidural cause contractions were going to start pretty strong now that he broke my water .. i said i could manage it , but honestly my cramps were no joke lol. I was 4 cm dilated . I then asked for the epidural cause the nurse told me that the anesthesiologist would take about an hr to come after i asked for it cause he’d be Doing other anesthesia and by the time he came i was contracting pretty strong . So he prepared everything, they told my husband if he could get out but he insisted he wanted to stay.& they let him , i sat on the side of the bed and the needle was inserted, Not a big deal .... but when the anesthesiologist was cleaning the plastics , he brought the catheter with him i. The plastic tape my God!!!😭😭😭.. i felt my nerves pinched my body all at the same time... that hurt . I did not know what happen but my husband was there to see it all “thank God “ . So the anesthesiologist said oh im sorry , it came out , but ill put it back and you wont feel that much pain this time... well he lied!! It f**** ing hurt .. i was tearing and shaking so bad . And he kept saying “ don’t move, stay still” i swear i couldn’t help it not one bit..it felt like he was touching on my nerves i could feel the pain in all my body from head to toe..... all that for nothing at first all pain was minimum like really it only felt like very minimum cramps thank God for it but.. after 30 min i was feeling pain. I thought it was normal , but when the nurse saw my face she asked if was okay that, i should not be feeling any pain. She asked if i wanted her to call the anesthesiologist and i was like hell no !!!the nurse knew why ..🤐..she said that he’d only be increasing the dose not doing all the process again. And well i said okay . By that time it was around 3 or 4 pm and another anesthesiologist entered the room, and well he only increased the dose ... it was the best feeling ever!!! No kidding ,I went from crying and sobbing nonstop to laughing and joking around with my LO and MIL🙌🏼😊 haaaa that only lasted couple of min when pain started hitting me so so bad ... i wanted to hit someone ... i know it was the epidural went wrong i would switched sides and nothing ... by 5 pm there was a women screaming bloody death next room ,,, and it did not help me a bit ...my dr entered and checked me i was 9 cm i just couldn’t wait i had the urge to push the baby out it hurt horribly . I honestly think was the worst .. my obgyn said that there was an emergency next door and he’d be back because baby’s head was there and i just couldn’t, i was desperate to push this baby out.when he finally entered and prepared everything yes!!!! Push push , no anesthesia, i was feeling every nerve on my body my LO was by my side and my MIL too,and im not gonna explain how bad it hurt cause y’all moms know its a real struggle.. i was just confident i could do this. It was quick baby came out and it was a relieve !!! After it the placenta .. and stitches not to mention i was feeling the stitches so my dr went and injected anesthesia himself . This was all by 7 pm , all this was a challenge ,But a blessing , oh and not to mention the horrible massages after birth !!😰😰😰 i could feel a hard ball inside my stomach ... the uterus”

Oh well its all worth it , a bundle of joy to our life’s is given to us, yes its hard but so so worth it and I thank God for my blessing , my son(: