Husband wants me to be dirty........

I’m not a very naturally “dirty” person in the bedroom. I definitely can be from time to time, but it doesn’t frequently turn me on. Total polar opposite for my husband. He wants me to dirty talk, spank myself, things like that.

Our sex life is suffering a little but because he’s always making crude sexual jokes, (literally constantly), or digging down my pants, smacking my ass it turns me off. I’m not saying he doesn’t give me other, nice types of love. But when it’s constant every day I really get sick of it and it turns me off.

Basically, we’re trying to find a middle ground here. He’s aware of what he needs to work on, what are some tips on how I can try to let loose a little more with him? I think it’s only fair that we both try for each other!