Will it get better?

Question

2 days post D&C.; 
Wow yesterday I was feeling fine (mentally). I was glad this is gonna be over soon, and we can start trying again. Today, it’s the complete opposite. I feel so angry at my body for doing this to me. Why did this have to happen?? I am suppose to be pregnant!! Now I have to start all over again. Tracking, temping, opking. It’s like I did all that for nothing before. Also, I am so SICK of going to the bathroom and seeing blood every time I wipe. It just keeps reminding me how much of a failure I am!!! I have been crying pretty much all day, or sleeping. I hope this doesn’t last much longer. Xxx

Answer

I went through a very similar thing. I was 10 weeks pregnant (first pregnancy) show up to my doctor appointment all giddy and left in tears. Our baby didn’t have a heartbeat and quit growing at 8 weeks. I was devastated. I also had to have a D&C.; I sobbed continuously for days. I was sad, I was pissed, I didn’t understand why it had to happen to me. Not to mention now we had to start all over and try again. Those were dark days. You’ll go through a continuous cycle of different emotions for a while. My best advice is just to take care of yourself. It’s so important! Cry when you feel it coming on, talk about it when you want to, do things that make you happy and don’t put any pressure on yourself. It’s a hard time and you’re grieving, be patient with yourself. Don’t leave your emotions locked inside. Get them out. Don’t ever blame yourself either or be angry with your body. You didn’t do anything wrong. It happens to 20% of us. I am so sorry for your loss and just remember there are so many of us who have been through this on here and understand! You aren’t alone! Stay positive! Although this baby will never leave your heart, time does heal the wound a little. I think about my miscarriage from time to time still. It even still makes me emotional...but if that didn’t happen to me, I wouldn’t have my rainbow baby now and I am so thankful for her. It also made my marriage stronger and I truly grew as a person. I hope you can find the light at the end of the tunnel when you’re ready. Baby dust to you my dear. ❤️❤️❤️

Will it get better?

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