SAHM and weight loss?

Anyone else a stay at home mom struggling to loose weight? I'm 23 years old, 5'7" and about 212lbs.

I watch what I eat and generally stay right around 1,200 calories a day with minimal fat.

My hubby says he likes me just how I am and he doubts that even with losing weight that I could go down much in clothes size due to how wide my hips and shoulders are. I wear a size 16w jeans, and a L/XL shirt.

To top it off, we are still getting snow where I live and the weather makes me very lethargic and apathetic. I just don't want to leave the house.