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Ok so I was always taught to save ur self for marriage and the Bible says to honor ur mother and father im 21 and I really want to have sex and feel y everyone likes it so much but I know if I do I will be sinning......what to do ...... ik it’s not the unforgivable sin but it’s still a sin?????......

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Of course it's a sin. And you already know that. God made sex for married people. If you want to have sex start looking for a marriage mate. And not just anyone. Try to do things properly and the right way. Marriage should be forever so it has to be someone you are compatible with and preferably someone who shares your religious beliefs so they don't lead you astray from your faith. But it sounds like you need some work in your own faith first. Remember that God tells us in James 4:8: "Draw close To God and he will draw close to you". Every law and guidance God hives us is for our own good. Good luck.

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as cliche as it us to say i honestly wish I waited. it's a part of me that I wish only my husband and I shared together he wishes he waited as well. I promise when the right man comes along and is you husband the wait will be well worth it. don't give yourself away to someone that wasn't meant to have you. I wish I could go back in time and wait for my husband but I can't. I know God forgives me. But why rush into it. sex is an act of love and if a man who really loves you  will understand you waiting that is something very special. something a husband and wife should experience together

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My husband didn’t save himself, and seriously regrets it. It’s pretty awful when you marry someone who believes the same thing, and you know they’ve seen another woman’s body. Look at the outcome for your future hubby and how he would feel about you seeing someone else, if he saved himself before he even knew you. Just a thought ❤️ The struggle is real, but it’s worth the wait! It’s so special when you do, if not, your wedding night is just another night to you!

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Pray that God will help you control your passions!! Please have courage and don’t allow yourself to become a slave to lust, 
I too am 21 and want to have sex but I’m waiting until marriage because I know I can wait with Gods help. 
And please don’t think that you can commit a sin because it’s forgivable you’re better than that. It’s just like saying “well I can kill a man and it’s fun because God will still forgive me” Don’t allow the devil to lead you away from God because that’s what sin does. 
I’ll pray for you.

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The fact that you asked if it is a sin will make you culpable to it. And even if you didn’t, I think you already know deep down that it is a sin. St. Thomas Aquinas said that “to love is to will the good of the other” and to sin is the opposite of love.
We have reason and that differentiates us from animals that simply act based upon their desires or instincts. God forbids us from sinning not just because He says so but because sin is harmful to us and to everybody. Our hearts are restless until they rest in God.
So keep working on your prayer and be open to God about this powerful desire for sex. He made sex and sex is good so ask Him how you can glorify His name. Read John 14 and 15.
I hope that helps.

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I staved it off for a long time by masturbating, then got it on with someone I trusted very much after a LOT of conversations about it. If it means that much to you, go that route (if you haven’t already) and save it for someone you seriously truly trust and think you could marry

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it’s 2018, the stigma about saving yourself for marriage is wearing off, God will always love you even if you lapse at times as long as you love him in return. Make sure you know what you’re doing and you practice safe sex though :-)

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