Is this bad

Everytime I’m having a regular day my bf annoys me and says shit that triggers me for example, he told me that since I never visited a university like him I need to figure myself out (currently going to a community college for 2 yrs before transferring) & he’s making it seem like I’m all over the place & dk what I want or I’m just a loser and he shook his head in disappointment. I personally hate when ppl tell me figure myself out cause that’s what I’m currently doing & it’s like ppl just don’t see it they think I’m not doing shit & especially him over something so stupid like not visiting a uni like him (which he isn’t going to attend) wooptie fucking do . Then he said did I trigger u? Did I hurt ur feelings or some & I was just ignoring him like shut the fuck up already and then he said I’m not dealing ur attitude today and ignored me . Like if u didn’t say annoying shit maybe I wouldn’t have a attitude which I didn’t have till he assumed I did? Basically is it bad that I get easily annoyed at things like this and he irritates my soul almost everyday 🤷‍♀️