Do you mind if your partner watches porn?

I guess I didn’t really mind at first, because I watch it too sometimes, but I’ve been thinking about it a little more. I watch it VERY occasionally but my boyfriend watches it like almost every night. We don’t live together. Like I said, I’ve really never minded and we’ve even talked about what we liked to watch and stuff related to that. But he told me he doesn’t really have a certain type he likes to watch, he just finds one with a hot girl and watches it.

I don’t know why THAT threw me. I guess when I watch porn, I’m not really attracted to the actors, I just am turned on by the actual sex. Maybe it’s me that’s weird??? But the idea that my boyfriend’s jerking off to other girls like very often sort of bothers me for some reason. I know he loves me and is very attracted to me and uses my nudes a lot of the time as well (but I don’t give him a lot so maybe that’s part of that 😅)

so am I being irrational? I haven’t said anything, don’t know if I should or even want to. I don’t want to tell him NOT to do it and I’m not sure if it’s reasonable for me to be upset with him about it. Help! Opinions!!!