When to let the relationship go....Repost

I have somethings to get off my chest...🙃😡....my boyfriend and I been dating for almost a year now. im 20 and hes 22. im in college and my bf is working, but still has yet to find a solid permanent job. my stepdad thinks hes wasting my time and taking my mind off of my goals to graduate college. my mom and stepdad thinks hes changing me, but I feel like im the same person. they explain to me that I need to get my life together and since I have a boyfriend, he should be able to help me with everything. 😕

are they seeing something that im not seeing. by them talking to me I feel like I cant make my own decision. I dont want them to look at me differently because of the person I choose to be with. im tired of getting yelled at a be-littled because im in a relationship. 😢😧😧😩

I really need advice and help only real and positive advice