My boyfriend dad

My boyfriends dad said that an hour a week is more than enough time to see each other (both 16) but his dad is always with his stepmom (his dad and “stepmom” aren’t married but they’ve been together for like 5 years) or on the phone with her. And I went over there to tell them I got my drivers license, his stepmom was cool about it but his dad wasn’t and he got in trouble. Which his dad was at work but of corse they were on the phone 🙄. And his stepmom has kicked him out twice when his dad wasn’t home (his dad is in the military) and after a month and a half of his dad being home he finally came and got him from where he was staying. And I’ve told multiple parents about what his dad makes him do and they all say that they’d never do that to their kids. His dad drove his oldest daughter away and now his son (my boyfriend) wants out of his house and his dad isn’t changing. And it stresses me out because my boyfriend doesn’t eat when he’s upset and idk if he’s eating at all. And I have no way of finding out. It just stresses me.