Boyfriend refused to have sex with me without condom.

Katie

So my boyfriend of almost three years refused to have sex with me without a condom tonight.

My boyfriend is usually a very understanding, sweet, and nice guy, but tonight he has really shown a different side.

We had a couple of drinks and we were both feeling in the mood to have some sexy time. I asked him if we could use a condom tonight because I wanted him to cum inside of me instead of on my belly or back. He then looked at me funny and refused to wear a condom and said he didn’t want to have sex anymore.

I felt really bad about myself and began to defend myself by asking why he would only have sex with me without a condom and the only response he had was that he didn’t want to have sex with a condom on and that it felt better without one. We argued about the topic which led me to become defensive and begin to cry. I made him leave my room and even threatened to break up with him because of his response.

I am feeling very conflicted as a woman and as his partner. I love this man with all of my heart but he has really hurt me. Am I wrong in feeling like this is taking advantage of my body? Or am I overreacting?

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