Fibromyalgia

My partner has been told he’s more than likely got fibromyalgia

He’s been in a lot of pain for around three plus years now throughout his whole body but mainly stemming from top of his back and neck

Now for me to be a bitch 😞

I understand how much pain he’s in and it effecting his mood making him anxious about going out due to pain which also leading to depression but he refuses to help himself

He won’t do any of he exercises the physio told him to he sits playing a computer most of the day and night so that’s not guna help his pains he won’t take the meds for his anxiety and depression and I just dont know what to do I’m just the horrible person that yaps at him instead of feeling sorry for him

I do everything I clean cook do shopping work look after the toddler and our dog I’m also sixteen odd weeks pregnant and it’s really starting to get to me now it’s effecting me badly I’m depressed and finding it harder to remember things and even plan out our dinner I never get a break he watches the baby while I work but he’s going to nursery soon as he cant cope now hes bigger and sometimes will watch him while I clean or lay down for n hour or so if I’m home but not usually longer than that

I ’ve lived with this for years but now I feel he’s got this diagnosis he’s just going to give up or use it as an excuse to do nothing about it because he can’t and wil always have it

I’m struggling badly and just need to vent I guess

If anyone has any advice to help him would be great