Loosing virginity?

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I am a virgin and i dont want to scream in pain while having my first sex so I tried to use a cucumber as a vibrator and tested out the pain AND IT HURTED SO FUCKING BAD! rather than that what worried me most was no matter how hard i pushed it inside me it just didn’t make it through and i don’t get why!!! btw i was wet as hell lmao:))

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A cucumber as a vibrator, never heard of that before

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You could try a dildo with graduated size also to try this way you can open yourself in steps so to speak.  Look online or at an adult toy store. Have fun.  No more veggies okay

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try starting with a finger instead

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Try to use a dildo, like an average 6" one since most penises are similar to that length. A cucumber is HUGE and you shouldn't shove it in. If something won't go in it wont go in. Sex shouldn't hurt and if it does its because you're not aroused enough. Some stretching feeling is normal but you will NOT scream if you are aroused enough. Foreplay is key.

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Uhhhhh.....well, you were shoving a huge object into a hole that likely wasn’t relaxed. The first time hurts with a penis, so you shove something three or more times bigger into your vagina..? WTF.

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How old are you

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Work your way up. Start small.

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... just use your fingers for now. relax, don't force. when you do have sex just make sure your very wet and that they go slowly.

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