would you accept a baby crib from family member or friend who recently lost their baby, or get a whole new crib?

well my sister lost her baby back in February, she has not once offered me the crib, "I didnt ask". but weirdly my mother keeps nagging me.

I'm now pregnant with a boy due in October, my sister lost her baby back in February but she's still grieving and going through things.

she didn't personally offer me the crib, but I just feel weird watching her lose her baby and just taking his crib for mine.

how can I respond to these ppl? which would be your options?