Pornography

Let’s talk about porn and relationships. I was pretty open about this topic, until I became aware of how harmful pornography can be to your psyche and wellbeing. There’s a lot of useful information out there; ted talks, articles, etc. I think that masturbation alone is healthy, but pornography might be tricky, and if you’re in a relationship it may be trickier.

I was recently in a relationship and we both watched porn. Not together, we do it privily and secretly. I began to feel pretty uncomfortable with the situation. I really enjoyed sex with my ex, but I guess I was used to that kind of stimulation. We probably weren’t managing and directing our sexual energy correctly. I decided to quit the habit.

I’m now single and I’m having a good time with my creative imagination.

I would like to read your thoughts about porn and how it can affect you and your relationship. Also what do you think about your beloved man watching or not watching porn.

Much love to all 🕯