Tense due to sex

So I’m new to having sex and I tense up a little making it hard for my boyfriend to insert it .. I feel bad .

But a few months ago I was fine at my OBGYN appointment cause my doctor told me to relax and he used lube ..

Idk what to do any suggestions ?

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