UPDATED: Shady ass phone usage 😠

I'm so pissed right now I'm shaking. I'm the girl that NEVER checks my SO's phone. I'm the girl that couldn't care less about my SO having girl friends or being friends with exes ot having any concerns about who he talks to. So tonight he gets a text. Whatever. So he grabs his phone and I ask, who is it? He reads it and ignores me. Then says, "i cancelled the dog's grooming appointment. I ask, they texted you? He says no, they emailed me. Ok... so who texted you? He said, someone I used to work with. Ooook, who is that? It was like pulling fucking teeth. I say ok, who? He says, Amber. Like really I had to ask 5 times?? So I ask why he couldn't just say so?? He says, because I knew youd act like this. WTF dude. I dont fucking care who you talk to. So then he says, well I didnt even know who it was at first. Huh? Obviously you did, you just told me? So she texts again and the display name pops up. Mother fucker had her programmed in his phone with her INITIALS. I'm so irate we haven't talked yet. I can't even.

UPDATE: After about an hour, he tried to act like everything was normal. When I wouldn't kiss him, he's like, What's wrong with you?? My angry ass, just seething, says "You're shady as fuck." Well he didnt like that, and basically tried to change why I was mad to make me feel like I'm overreacting. He said that I'm mad a girl texted him (not true) and she's 300 miles away and he hasn't seen her in 8 years and how dare I accuse him of any wrongdoing (um, I didn't?) blag blah. Then he calls me immature and says he can't believe I'm doing this. And he told me whenever I'm angry I make everyone around me miserable (meaning him, because he HATES confrontation). And he said that I'M the one with shady ass phone practices. ME! Why, you ask? "Because you're on your phone more than I'm on my phone." WHAAAAAT?! Ugh. Anyway, that's about it. Don't know how tonight will go. We'll see I guess.