Does this make me a bad person???

So for all of you to understand this situation my boyfriend of 4 years and I have a 10 month old baby. We’re teen parents we had her right after high school.

Before I got pregnant me and my boyfriend were going through a rough patch and we had broken up but it didn’t last long. During this break up we both looked to other people he started talking to this girl (she’s had a crush on him since they were middle schoolers and because me and him were dating since our freshman year of high school she hates my guts) he honestly can’t be single idk why I think he just doesn’t like being alone especially since during this time me and him had lost all our friendships with other people and we only had each other. But anyways while he talked to that girl I started talking to a guy but it was only through text we never met in person EVER.

Anyways my boyfriend had started to get very physical with this girl to the point where they acted like a couple (hugging, hand holding etc) and I admit it hurt A LOT but out of the blue one day he texted me and we started talking again as friends while we were talking, the guy I had been talking to cut me off and said he just wanted to be friends so that was over with and my boyfriend started being all sweet to me and acting like we were together again and that was where I stopped him.

I told him if he wanted me he had to end things with the other girl first but I also told him if he really wanted to be with her he should tell me straight up and I would back off. I said this because he seemed like he was happy and also I HATE BEING THE BAD GUY. I didn’t want to leave this girl sad and heart broken because she’s obviously had a crush on him forever and now that she was with him he was gonna leave her high and dry. But he chose me and he cut her off the next day he told her straight up he wanted to be with me and what went on between them meant nothing to him he was going through a breakup. And I felt HORRIBLE.

But I couldn’t fix anything for her and she hated me even more so there was a ton of drama.

FAST FORWARD

It’s now been almost 2 years since all of this happened and she has popped back up. My boyfriend came home from work one day and said guess what happened today. I asked him and he said she had texted him again.

He showed me the messages and she was THROWING HERSELF AT HIM she said she missed hum and that everything that happened has been forgiven and forgotten that she just wanted one more chance to be with him and that she didn’t care if he was with me and I was SHOCKED.

He never replied. We tried to ignore it but my boyfriend decided to reply one day saying that he was sorry but he was with me and he has a family he has to worry about that me and our daughter are the only girls for him but she wasn’t having it.

She became persistent and she had a friend who is gay and this friend who I had never met before texted me one day and told me how betrayed she felt. She said that her and said girl have been in an on and off again relationship ever since the situation that happened two years ago. She told me that said girl really has had a crush on my boyfriend forever and that she has told her to leave us alone and let us be a family. But she wanted my boyfriend she became obsessed.

So this is what I did.

I texted the girl and we had what I like to think was a mature conversation between two women where I respectfully asked her to back off to stop texting my boyfriend and to fix things with her friend. She said she would back off and that was that. A week later she pops back up so I sent screenshots of the messages to her friend and guess what. Like we latinos like to say “la mandaron pa la chingada.” She told her to go to hell and she exposed all the screenshots to her family who by the way hate my boyfriend for breaking her heart in the first place and are more pissed at their daughter now for trying to get in between a family, she also posted them all over facebook and allll of our high school class has seen them especially all our mutual friends who tried to defend her and said she wasn’t at fault for anything for all the drama we had after the first situation.

I’m wondering if I’m a mean person because I looked up her instagram today and found she deleted all of her pictures but one which said something about how (it’s sad that a person you share some of the best memories with won’t even look in your direction anymore” (these weren’t the exact words but it was something along the line of this)

And after seeing this I FELT LIKE A PETTY ASS BITCH. I FELT LIKE THAT BITCH.

I was so happy and smiling cause finally after all the mess she used to say about me after all the drama she wanted to cause after she continuously tried stealing my boyfriend SHE LOST EVERYTHING. KARMA IS A BITCH. I tried being nice and talking to her maturely about the situation but in the end she tried to play me for a fool ! So now I’m wondering am I bad person for feeling happy about this ??

If this story seemed like there are some holes in it there are, there were a few minor details I left out for privacy issues.