not sure if right topic...

...but I just found out I am pregnant and my fiancee is not supportive at all.

We have 3 kids - 14, 13, & 1. This one is a complete surprise and he says it changes everything. That we will never be able to do any of the plans we had like build a house or help our kids through college or help get them cars. He says I need to be open minded and that he loves all our kids but need to think of them and not be selfish.

I'm so scared and alone. I never thought he would ask this of me. I know he is stressed. I got laid off 3 months ago and have been looking but for some reason God's plan has me at home right now.

I really feel depressed about everything now and that everything is on my shoulders. But the life of my baby shouldn't be. And I feel like if I have it, he will just hate me...

*I have been on the minipill since having my last baby.