this is what I was dealing with

so I was with a guy that I had been with since last September. we were together just shy of a year. and the relationship started out good. like we would hang out, chill talk all the time and things were great. but then in march, I found out he cheated on me, he lied to me about it but I caught him doing it. he was sending nudes to the girl and she was doing the same. and when I caught him, he promised he would stop. said he had stopped talking to the girl and all. then a few weeks later, I found out it was still going on, I stuck around hoping things would get better and waiting for him to change. he never did. he got to the point he would tell at me. and it got to the point where like if he raised his hand i would duck my head or back away. and I was always upset because he was messing around on me with the other girl. and so I started distancing myself from him. and he got to where it was like all he cared about was sex. and if I didn't want to do it, he was get pouty and turn into a total ass. and I was tired of it. the last time i spent the weekend at his house, I wanted to go home ever since my mom dropped me off. but I didn't say anything. I waited for thing to get better. like the while weekend while I was there, my best friend, who I've been in love with for 5 years, was hanging out at my house with my mom and brothers. I didn't know he had wanted to spend the weekend at my place because he thought I was going to be there. but multiple times everyday while I was at the guys house that weekend, I would call and talk to Adam, the guy who was staying at my house for the weekend, my best friend. and I would ask when my mom was coming to get me. and then Sunday night mom came and got me, like always. Adam was with her. and back in march when the guy I was with first started cheating on me, I was talking to Adam about it asking him what I should do, everyone was telling me I should leave. that I could do better. but Sunday when they came and got me, I told Adam I wanted to talk to him when we got back to my place. so when we got to my house we went in the front yard and we talked for like 2 hours. I told him all that was going on and everything. and he told me even then that I should leave and I could do way better. and i didn't know until that night that Adam had been in love with me for years too. but he told me that night that he had been. I never thought I had a chance with him. I didn't think he liked me like that. I broke up with my boyfriend the next day. like i had been planning on doing all weekend. and he got pissed but whatever. I don't care if he did. I was tired of being hurt. tired of being treated the way he was treating me. and Adam and I have always been close. but Adam and I are together now, and I was told countless times when I was with my ex, that I would find someone who would treat me like a woman should be treated. and Adam does. I never have to worry about if he's going to cheat on me, I can trust him. and he cares about me for who I am. he doesn't just care about getting in my pants. and ive never been happier. im posting this to let all the girls out here who are in similar situations, that there is someone who will show u how a woman should be treated. so if anyone is in similar situations, you can do way better. and you're not alone. things don't always just get better with the person who does nothing but hurt you, buts there's someone who will do whatever he can to make you happy. to show you, how a woman should be treated.